What's the worst thing about being your gender?

• DA

  dayvee.d9

  2025-09-18

  lol

• AF

  afkrobot

  2025-09-18

  Everything revolving around children. Some crazies out there get real weird when they see a man and a child w/o the mother around. In divorce proceedings, the man is also significantly less likely to get to keep and raise the children, even if they are more stable than the mother. In some circles (not mine, thank god) emotionality is also a big problem. God forbid a guy cries or talks about his feelings. I've heard from quite a few acquaintances how doing that has ruined their relationships with women. The one that I am actively most affected by is fashion though. Male fashion is ass, don't @ me.

• BA

  baliland

  2025-07-19

  Constantly having to avoid the opposite gender to not look like a creep

• SH

  shutaro10_20

  2025-07-19

  Nothing.

• DA

  davee8178

  2025-07-19

  Short lifespan

• WA

  wakko413

  2025-07-19

  so many problems, i probably can't talk about it

• RA

  rannisc0nsort

  2025-07-19

  cleanliness

• AM

  amerikahitomonsuta

  2025-07-18

  Expectations of brutal labor with little to no mental and emotional support. Not all, but many men carry the same expectations as a mule.

• LA

  latte308

  2025-07-18

  Man idk

• WO

  wolfy_813

  2025-07-18

  being told by someone to act manly

• TH

  thisiseight

  2025-07-18

  今、ぜんぜんスキンケアやメイクを作ることが知らない

• IT

  itauchiha

  2025-07-18

  probably the fact that a lot of people don't respect it

• FO

  foxsekai

  2025-07-18

  Can't express my emotions

• NO

  not_neutral

  2024-11-08

  Like in general or personally?

• WI

  willafly

  2024-11-08

  This doesn't matter much anymore and I just got reminded of this because of the question, but my elementary - middle school was *incredibly* sexist(in this case, girls > boys). It was so bad where it got to the point where if a boy did something to get in trouble, let's say he had his phone out in class, he would probably get threatened with a lengthy ISS or OSS, while if a girl did it, all they had to do was cry and there was no punishment other than getting told not to have your phone out 😭. If you were male, you had to constantly be making sure that you didn't do anything against the rules otherwise you would have to do some stupid punishment(such as cleaning the whole cafeteria or other rooms, don't ask cause I *definitely* didn't have to do these ever).

• UN

  uni_the_elation

  2024-11-08

  Height. 身長.

• NA

  narwallcanart

  2024-11-08

  uhh im trans so i guess its the demand of being clean and quiet im loud as fuck

• KA

  kanashiikaras

  2024-11-08

  nothing, i love what i am.

• HI

  hitmehardermakemestrong

  2024-11-08

  Disrespect from the other gender Your physical integrity can be in danger

• TE

  teacupthug

  2024-11-08

  i guess the thing where im not really allowed to express certain emotions without being seen as weak

• WI

  wiktorkw

  2024-11-08

  - Higher suicidal rates - shorter lifespan - higher chance to get cancer - higher variety of cancers to get - decreasing privileges with maintained expectations. I'm all for equal standing but the outcome should also be presumed equal.

• OU

  outcxst_00

  2024-11-08

  離婚後何があっても慰謝料は支払わなければなりません...

• NS

  nscwb_

  2024-11-08

  金玉痛い

• TI

  tiefthalerdachs

  2024-03-21

  日付

• AM

  AMF

  2023-06-13

  Balls hurt for no reason

• LO

  loaf

  2023-04-25

  Less variety of clothing is acceptable, although boys in dresses are cute too and i love that i can protest by doing that. Anyway i think being a boy is better other than how people are more willing to think youre a creep. AFAB get away with so much more creepy behavior imo

• NA

  Natta999

  2023-04-24

  Being aggressive, maybe.

• カラ

  カラス

  2023-04-24

  peeing while having a boner

• RO

  RockSalt

  2023-04-24

  You get falsely accused of sexual assault Never get custody of kids Generally less cared about Some women literally trying to erase you One phallic soft spot

• とう

  とうふ

  2022-10-31

  || random boners ||

• UM

  ume

  2022-10-31

  being short, not looking good in male's clothes

• IL

  ilikeyoo

  2022-10-31

  less opportunity ? in other countries maybe ?

• まり

  まりぶ

  2022-10-31

  period

• CR

  CRAZY_CATASTROPHE

  2022-10-31

  nothing really tbh lol

• FR

  fritoone

  2022-10-31

  Men not knowing how to be men.

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