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Are you afraid of letting others get close to you?

他人が自分に近づくことを恐れていますか?

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39 answers

  • 87

    87morpheus

    そう、もっと人に心を開くことに慣れようとしてるんだ

  • S1

    s1mply.raven

    I suppose I’m in the middle. Yes but no

  • DA

    davee8178

    Depends on the person

  • PR

    prisal

    yes, i keep everyone at arms length

  • SH

    shutaro10_20

    A little bit.

  • SA

    sasuchu

    not really, they can get close to me, im just scared of getting close to them

  • MO

    morgana4ever

    何回もほかの人に傷つけられたから、少し恐れているけど、やっぱり愛されたい❤️

  • FO

    foxsekai

    時々

  • ST

    stone.free.124

    I have a demon inside my heart so please don't be closer.

  • MI

    mikanebi

    <:yes:1222451371907878935>

  • __

    __orbit

    I'm the opposite of afraid

  • II

    iitai.uwu

    yes

  • IM

    imdad.

    少しずつ、あの人とお互いに信用できるようになって、お互いの幸せを願ったり、近づくことができる

  • T0

    t0457y

    not really no

  • AF

    afkrobot

    I am by personal choice open with a lot of people, but I definitely close off quite fast when I notice someone intentionally trying to bridge the gap. Apart from that, I am not sure what close means here. Many innermost thoughts, especially those I have trouble putting into words, are between me and, if anyone, my therapist. Those things do not concern anyone as they are not part of the person I chose to be.

  • CL

    clownspor

    Yes 😇

  • WO

    worm68

    if this person is a bear then yes definitely

  • KU

    kumori.xo

    Yes

  • FE

    fedor.v.emelianenko

    I've done judo and grappling, so it would be a bit of a problem if I was afraid lol.

  • NO

    not_neutral

    Define “close”

  • SO

    soetch

    well, i like physical touch but i'm getting more and more cautions of people approaching me since some things happened in the past

  • ZE

    zero_ch.

    Nah

  • NA

    natta999

    Depend on context. But I doubt if anybody want to hug me from behind

  • DO

    dOga

    nah, even if they do im not letting them to be that close to me 💀

  • FU

    fuffypanda

    yeah

  • XU

    xunial

    Uh depends, cause I don’t mind but I get rid of them quick if we don’t click

  • MI

    min_eb

    Yeah.

  • TA

    takkun5591

    If it's a woman approaching, I am very cautious. Mostly because bad things happen to me.

  • MA

    maribu0223

    Not at all

  • MI

    min_eb

    絶対そうですね 近づくこと恐れてるけど、近づきたい時もあるし、そんな時にも相変わらず近づくことは恐れてる感じでただの寂しいやつの完成でございますね

  • DO

    dOga

    No, the others should worry if I get closer to them

  • GA

    galaxykinks

    yes

  • FR

    fritoone

    Not afraid, just cautious.

  • MO

    Mortibi

    no

  • RO

    RockSalt

    If it's just a few people then I'm alright. If it's a crowd, I won't be happy

  • KI

    Kizaru

    ありませんけど、たくさんの人が自分に近づく時、時間がない、みんなに。

  • カラ

    カラス

    actually, other should be more afraid if i get close to em💀

  • (+

    (+_+)

    Yes

  • MO

    Moro

    多少は警戒するかも。

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